Since the most recent merge, im unable to join in good times, and some other club events... says I..

Since the most recent merge, im unable to join in good times, and some other club events... says I'm not in a club, but I am. Is this glitch happening anywhere else? Also, can I delete my character from my first day on a different server? I restarted w a diff char on my bf server, and don't need that one skulking around lol. Aldo, I cant figure out how to change my roof. I've spent so much on this game I dont want to miss events tho, any help appreciated