How do I light the lantern to light the box, when I try she drops it and starts a fire. ?

Kay so, you go to the room that has all the flying furniture, go to the far left and click on the window looking things, then go back and put it behind her (Paint it RED)

Just give the box to her and color it blue in that way she will remember something and then you can move on to the next level.

Hourglass

The painting, make 3 taps to the right then open the door and tap on the window to paint it.